Why do women want to marry??

If you are reading this post now, you may start thinking why have I chosen such a topic. Well, I've come across so many instances where women are more possessed and zeal to get married. Last week I saw this wonderful and amazing movie "He's just not that into you" starring Ben Affleck as Neil Jones and Jennifer Aniston as Beth Bartlett. They both love each other and have been living in the same apartment for 7yrs. Although Beth wants to get married, Neil does not believe in signing a piece of paper to say you love someone. He doesn't believe in the instution called marriage where you have to spend a lot just to express your love and committment to each other. His explanation is when two best friends care and love each other, have responsibility and committment why do you need a certificate or rather proof for that? Beth is everything for Neil in his life, but why is she insisting him to get married? Doesn't that makes sense? Before you guys pounce and squall on me, let me be frank I do believe in an institution called marriage. But after watching this movie, a thought struck to me. Why women wants to get married?

Imagine this: On Saturday evening one couple walks into the cafe. They order crème frappe and the girl sits opposite her date and starts sipping it. She runs her hand through her hair, thinking he is one made for her. She had decided that she would marry him and already started dreaming about family and kids. That's the reason she even bothered to go out with him. She was visualizing her life ahead, thinking not to fight with her mother-in-law, sister-in-law, father-in-law, and yes of course to become best grand daughter-in-law. She also knew that with time and affection, she would become better person of that guy, who is right now checking the girl seated on the opposite table wearing minis.

Girl: Stop checking out that girl in minis।

Boy: What? Me? Girl? Checking? where? Who? I wasn't seeing anyone.

Girl: hmm....so tell me what was I saying?

Boy, who is caught totally off guard, thinks hard but his brain is still stuck at those smooth unending legs on the opposite table. So, to save himself from all the tsunami he is about to face, he handles the situation very cautiously.

Boy: I love you jaan..

Girl: Really? Cho chweet of you. Did you talk to your parents about us?

Well this is the most common thing that is going to happen if you are in a relationship for more than an year or so. This is the problem with Indian woman, they view dating solely in terms of marriage. Nowadays colleges and offices are the marriage bureaus. U remember the coke commercial in which a guy and a girl introduce their parents to each other, that's exactly the situation today.

A woman of course has always been categorically told that her in-law’s place is her real home. Most of them try to lead life like their sister or anyone who is in good relationship in her family. They try to follow them in every aspect. Even the most coveted females are not untouched by the prehistoric bug. “We are social animals and have been brought up with the concept of permanent families. For a woman, marriage is all about security. Even women who are doing very well professionally want a man who can ‘support’ them. That they do not need the support is a different story.

Even at the end of this post I cant figure out “why do women want to marry?” If you are a women reading this please enlighten me. :D

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-Dileep Karpur
N.C. State

Dance in Rain..

When you are in the midst of a storm

Feeling dark and disdain

Don’t wait for it to pass

Forget Everything and

Just dance in the rain

Feel the water flow, and 

Run down your face

Enjoy every moment

Imagine it’s a blessing and

Relish Gods grace

Experience the mystical energy

Restore your childhood again

Soothe your soul

Rejuvenate your senses

Relinquish all your pain

Hear the gushing sound

Of the water flowing along, and

Rustling of leaves

Chirpily through every crevice

Happily sing a song...

Watch the rain renew

The hue of the landscape green

Invigorate your spirit for

Every drop that falls on you

Feel your mind - go serene

Bad times never last

There will be better and cherry days

Never give up hope

Confidence is your strength

Have faith in God’s ways!

What WrestleMania means to me!!

According to me WrestleMania is a time for Fans and Superstars to get together and rememeber why we watch pro wrestling and why we have decided to be in it. WrestleMania is a time for the Superstars to look back and try to follow the foot steps of those Superstars and legends who came before them and created history. People stand up and respect you, when you enter the stage. Millions of people waiting to watch your fight, holding banners and cardboards, screaming your name, dancing for the entry music, you are not an alien any more. You are sombody special and you mean something to everyone. Dream or goal of any pro wrestler is to fight on this grand stage and to prove everyone that he is the legend. You practice day and night for this big event, to give an astonishing performance so that people will remember until the day they leave this god's green earth.

For me, its my dream to get into Pro Wrestling, sign with the WWE and some day have the honor and privilage of performing on this grand pulpit. Just like the Superstars of today said to themselves years ago when they watched as young kids, I'm gonna say the same thing. I'm going to become a Pro Wrestler and work my a** off to some day be able to perform on that rostrum.

For those who missed wrestlemania this time, here are the results:

• John Cena def Edge and Big Show for world heavyweight chapmpion
• Triple H def Randy Orton for WWE Championship
• Matt Hardy def Jeff Hardy
• Stone Cold Steve Austin was part of hall of fame
• Undertaker def Shawn Micheals

Next year, 28/03/2010 WRESTLEMANIA XXVI at Arizona, in the hot desert. Sit back and feel the heat.

Vote Earth

Darkness didn't prevail for a long time in my house,  mom got irritated and switched on the lights.  I guess she didn't know what's the importance of this day.  28th March 2009, World Earth Day! Then I explained her about it, and she wasn't convinced totally.  Most of the people still wonder why were they were asked to switch off lights for an hour on that day.  "See the difference you can make..Save planet earth..blah blah blah" we could see all such slogans in banners, posters, pamphlets and tv commercials. 

This year, Earth Hour has been transformed into the world's first global election, between Earth and Global Warming.  For the first time in history, people of all ages, nationalities, race and background had the opportunity to use their light switch as their VOTE!  Switching off lights is a vote for earth, or rather a vote against Global Warming.  Basically this is an awareness program which is held every year, reminding everyone to think about our very own EARTH! Electricity is the major contributor to global warming.

Bengaluru a cosmopolitan city, silicon city, well known for software, night clubs, etc., but sorry to say this.. it wasn't a major contributor for Earth Hour.  Spending an hour without power is not a big deal!  Oh oh..sorry I forgot, its Election Time now. The so called great politicians are trying protect our mother earth, busy campaigning "I'll save Earth, you'll have greener future, vote for me!!" duh!! Dont you think its high time thinking too much of ourselves?? We cannot repay back what nature has given us, but atleast lets not destroy it.  Lets join hands together and take control of the future of our planet, for future generations. "Jago Jago Jago...Jago...re.."